The Everyday Warrior

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Managing Stress

This was me before going up to the top of the arch. My scared & stressed look.

This was me before going up to the top of the arch. My scared & stressed look.

 

To say that I have been stressed the last few months, is an understatement. Most of it has been work related and I don’t talk about work here so you will just have to believe me that my stress level has been through the roof. Because I have been so stressed I have had to come up with different ways to manage it. Here is what I have found works best for me.

1. Run it out - Running has always been my go to stress reliever. It calms me and provides a sense of clarity over what is stressing me that I can’t get when I don’t run. Other types of exercise work too but running is my prefered outlet.

2. Breathe! – I’m not one to meditate, although I am sure if I applied myself I would find it very beneficial. I do however take a few minutes to breathe deeply and that helps keep my stress level in check.

3. Perspective - I ask myself two very important questions about what is stressing me. Will it matter 1 year from now and do I have any control over it? If my answer to either of those questions is no, that helps me gain perspective on what is stressing me and allows me to calm down about the issue.

4. Get sleep – Being in a constant state of stress is very taxing on my body. I try to make sure I get a good amount of sleep to help myself handle what is bothering me. Although it is easier said than done sometimes.

5. Family & Friends – There are definitely times when I am stressed that I would like nothing more than to stay in my bed and hide under the covers. Unfortunately that doesn’t make what is stressing me go away or help me cope with the stress. Spending time with family and friends always helps though!

6. Fake it! – Sometimes none of the above tactics work and when that happens I resort to faking it until I make it. If I act like I am not stressed I will eventually convince myself that I am not. Seems strange but it is true.

 

Now that you know my stress management tactics I want to know what you do to handle stress. Leave a comment below.

 

 

 

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Saturday Sound Off: Trying to be Ok with Being “Good Enough”

This week I have been feeling pretty overwhelmed in all facets of my life. I feel like I have too much to do and not enough time to accomplish it all, both at work and in my personal life. And to make matters worse, I am a bit of a perfectionist, so I believe that I should be able to do everything. Rationally I realize that “doing everything” is not feasible or realistic, but my perfectionist trait is firmly ingrained in my personality.

Because of these feelings, I decided to examine all areas of my life to see if I could make some “cuts” to help me breathe a little easier. Here is what I came up with.

1. Work – I need to work to help pay our bills. I enjoy what I do and where I work, so although some days are frustrating and the commute is long, it is worth it.

2. My commute to work - It would be nice to live closer to work but where I live feels like home and changing everything Brennen knows and loves would not be worth a shorter commute. Besides, my commute gives me a breather while I  transition from work life to home life.

3. Housework – As it is, our house is no where as clean as it was before we had Brennen, so I don’t think it is wise to do any less that I manage to do now.

4. Exercise – Any time I cut back on working out, I just feel more stressed and overwhelmed. Running keeps me sane and it is far cheaper than therapy!

5.Facebook – I could cut back on my Facebook time, but everyone needs a guilty pleasure, right?

6.My Blog - Earlier in the week, I had actually decided to stop blogging, hence the reason I did not have an entry on Wednesday like I normally do. But then I got a few comments on some of my previous entries and I got all excited and started blogging again.

So it turns out that my analysis proved what I already knew, it’s not that I need to “cut” anything out of my life, it’s that I need to be ok with being “good enough.” Easier said than done . . .

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